Comments on Life With Eliza Grace: In Between

This is awesome. Sorry I'm so late to catch u...

2012-01-25T16:33:55.730-05:00

This is awesome. Sorry I'm so late to catch up, but I love this post! I'm with you. We take advantage of every opportunity to spend time with Grandma, and it's good for all of us. My mother isn't near 90 (only 69) but my father died at 66 and I know how fleeting and precious life is and how important those memories and relationships are. Much, much more important than ballet!

YES! I absolutely agree! What the heck is wrong wi...

2012-01-23T17:46:14.615-05:00

YES! I absolutely agree! What the heck is wrong with us, regimenting our kids through their lives? My kid has never taken a weekend class in his life--we spend weekends hanging out, playing video games, sleeping in, going to the movies, cooking brownies, and having friends come over for sleepovers (he does--I don't). I kept him out of school for an extra year before kindergarten because it just seemed to me that one you start school you never again have unstructured time to play, explore the world, nap, and know the true meaning of eternity (it's the time between when your mom says she's going to take you swimming and the time you actually leave for the pool). Giving my son opportunities is important to me--he went to brass camp last summer, does a daycamp in the summers, and does sports. But when family comes to visit he gets a day off from school to play with cousins, hang with aunts or grandmas--whatever. Family's important. So is free time.

The time she has with her Grandma right now is pri...

2012-01-22T21:18:51.686-05:00

The time she has with her Grandma right now is priceless and I would spend every extra minute she has with your Mom. So many people do not have the opportunity/blessing to have a grandma.
These times she has will be cherished forever by her.

Personally, I want to spend time with your mom. Sh...

2012-01-19T11:45:43.795-05:00

Personally, I want to spend time with your mom. She sounds like a firecracker :)

great post...she will always remember those weeken...

2012-01-19T08:45:38.189-05:00

great post...she will always remember those weekends!

I agree, family is the MOST important thing. There...

2012-01-17T08:15:13.524-05:00

I agree, family is the MOST important thing. There is always time for the other stuff. I was very close to my grandparents, my grandfather especially. I had to cancel my first date with my now-husband at the last minute because I was driving 3 hours to see my grandmother when they thought she might have had some sort of heart issue (turns out it was just pluresy, but whatever). We're lucky that the boys have several great grandparents still around, and I can't imagine not seeing them every weekend.

I absolutely agree with you. (And you put it so e...

2012-01-17T07:18:51.175-05:00

I absolutely agree with you. (And you put it so eloquently--thank you for sharing these precious moments.)

People have shared this wisdom with me: "peop...

2012-01-17T06:54:06.467-05:00

People have shared this wisdom with me: "people may not remember what you did, but they'll remember how you made them feel." Something about spending time helping someone feel loved is, well, timeless. May it bear much fruit in all of your lives.

Great way to spend the weekends! And this, spoken by a dedicated soccer coach :)

For everything there is a season.

ugggh - "her, her and my mother" not she...

2012-01-17T00:39:18.334-05:00

ugggh - "her, her and my mother" not she...I'm my only grammar police.

As always, thoughtful and poignant. And, I agree ...

2012-01-17T00:38:11.118-05:00

As always, thoughtful and poignant. And, I agree completely.

When my mema was given 3 months to live, the girls and I basically moved in with she and my mother. I wouldn't have been anywhere else - for me, and for them.

They were only 2.5 at the time - but they still remember things from being with her and at least a few times a week one of them will say, "I miss Mema" or ask to pray for her.

You can take ballet at any time in your life. There's only so much time in one's young life to teach, learn and live compassion. One witnessed, experienced and lived - it will never be forgotten.

You are giving Eliza the greatest gift ever.

Anne, I agree 100% with you! Eliza will learn mor...

2012-01-16T22:33:00.780-05:00

Anne, I agree 100% with you! Eliza will learn more in one hour with your mother than 10 hours in a gym class. Balance, grace, poise, compassion...all with someone who loves her dearly. I take Tate to play with his grandparents almost every single weekend. And it brings such joy to my heart to watch my parents, especially my father, simply watch and enjoy Tate that we often just hang out in the house playing. There is plenty of time in the next 20 years for our kids to spend time with non-family members. Enjoy!

So beautiful! And yes, they are each blessed by h...

2012-01-16T21:54:45.414-05:00

So beautiful! And yes, they are each blessed by having the other in her life. You are wonderful for remembering what is important in life.